The Hunter was afraid.
He raised his rifle and shouted, “I want to have you for dinner!”
The Bear was afraid.
He reared up on his back legs and roared, “I want to have you for breakfast!”
The Hunter fired but missed, then both turned and ran away.
The Hunter went home and told his friends, “I tried to invite the Bear over for dinner, but he threatened to attack me.”
The Bear went home and told his friends, “I tried to invite The Hunter over for breakfast but he tried to shoot me.”
The Hunter and The Bear could have been friends, but they were not clear when they communicated their wishes to each other.
People don’t always say exactly what they mean and we don’t always hear exactly what they are trying to say.
Before taking offense, stay calm, ask questions, repeat what you think you heard, clarify and make sure you understand precisely what is being said.
Doing this may rescue a potentially great relationship or save one you already have.
~Miscommunication: the failure to communicate clearly~
Proverbs 12:18 “Reckless words pierce like a sword but the tongue of the wise brings healing.”
Proverbs 15:1 “A gentle answer turns away wrath but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
Proverbs 18:13 “He who answers before listening-that is his folly and shame.”
Proverbs 21:23 “He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity.”