It’s July 4th. USA’s Independence Day. A time to remember our journey of becoming a nation. The day we celebrate our historical release from the rule of a British monarchy.
This land was founded on independence, which in many ways is good. It holds each of us responsible for our own choices, our own path and fuels much of the creativity, innovation and freedom we enjoy.
Taken to the opposite extreme, however, it’s not good. There we come to believe, “I don’t need anyone. I can do it my way. Don’t need you. Won’t listen to that opinion. Not letting anyone else in.”
There all sense of community is lost. The desire for belonging, every human craves, is gone. We are no longer our brother’s keeper. We isolate, judge, withhold.
We are meant to be the hands and feet of Jesus in this world. Literally. Physically. Not just talk but action. Will we ever perfect this on Earth? Probably not. But we are always meant to try.
We don’t have to rescue the entire world, only help the one set before us. Today. In whatever form that may unfold. Anything from a simple hug and smile to:
“I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m here to listen.”
“Can I pick up anything at the store for you?”
“Let’s go out to dinner. My treat.”
“Would you like me go with you to that doctor appointment?”
“I‘m coming over to mow your grass, fold laundry, watch the kids, bring lunch, help organize your garage, clean leaves out of the gutters, paint that room, plunge the toilet or just keep you company for a while.”
There’s so many ways we can help the people whose life intersects ours, some may even require opening our wallet.
Independence says: 
“I‘m too busy”.
“I don’t have time”.
“That’s their problem.”
“That’s not my concern”.
“They’ll figure it out.”
“I don’t know what to say/do.”
And a host of other excuses we come up with to stay independent from others.
Dependence requires sacrifice of our time, energy, emotions, money, resources. Love asks, “What can I do to make your world a better place today? Right now?” Then puts action to it.
In it’s rightful context, there’s nothing bad about independence, but there can be a whole lot right about dependence, a dependence on God and each other to get us through this life.
Happy Independence Day to America!
And Happy Dependence Day to Us!
Galatians 6:2 “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.
James 2:15-16 “If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that?”
1 John 3:18 “Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.”
